Has Personal Growth Failed You?

What if you're not broken?

Lately, I’ve been sensing a collective wave of disheartenment. 

That creeping feeling that maybe—just maybe—personal growth over-promised and under-delivered.

The dream we were sold was clear:
"Do the work, follow the steps, visualize hard enough… and life will reward you."

And yet—so many are left wondering: Where’s the breakthrough? Why am I still stuck?

Oh, friend, I’ve been there. Have you?

If you’ve ever felt let down, confused, or quietly betrayed by the promises of personal development, you’re not alone. These feelings are valid—and they make perfect sense. There's a deeper story here, and I want to share it.

You see, most personal growth paths only give us part of the map. We reach for tools—Astrology, Human Design, Gene Keys, the Enneagram, Myers-Briggs. Each offers insight. But even together, they only sketch an outline.

Because you’re not just your psychology.
You’re an infinite being with layers of intelligence that no single system can fully capture.

Let’s zoom out for a moment.

Over the years, personal growth has evolved in waves:

• Wave One taught us the power of thought. Think and Grow Rich. Mind over matter.
• Wave Two invited us into the body with somatics, yoga, breathwork, and Eastern philosophies.
• Wave Three brought energy into the mix—reminding us that without shifting the root energetic patterns, nothing truly changes.
• Wave Four woke us up to the nervous system. The revelation? 80% of signals flow from body to brain. You can’t outthink a dysregulated system.

Each wave brought something essential. But here’s the truth:

Most programs only teach one.

And then when it doesn't work? We blame ourselves.

But what if you weren’t broken—just working with one inflated tire and three flats?

What if your dream didn’t fail you—what if you simply didn’t have access to the whole vehicle required to carry it through?

The truth is:
You were not given a dream you don’t have the capacity to fulfill.
The universe is intelligent and benevolent.
Your desire knows what it’s doing.

But yes—it will ask you to go beyond who you think you are.
It may ask you to get radically present in your body.
To restore your nervous system.
To stop fixing and start aligning.

And most of all—it will ask you to be way more you than you’ve ever dared to be.

So if your dream still lingers...
If you feel the spark flickering underneath the fatigue or the disappointment...
If a part of you still believes there’s more for you...

Stay tuned.
There’s a new conversation coming.

And maybe—just maybe—it’s time to find out which tires are flat.